* For consensual adult partner use only. Breath restriction carries serious risk, including loss of consciousness or death. The person applying this device must fully understand these risks, be experienced in the use of breath-control devices, and is responsible for continuous monitoring with the ability to release the device immediately. Discontinue use at the first sign of distress.

The Breath Control Collar grew out of a conversation with an experienced breath-control enthusiast couple who enjoyed choking play but felt limited by the tools they had been using. Hands, ropes, and belts all technically worked, but none offered convenient or consistent control. Many required two hands and often broke the flow of other BDSM play. Small changes in force or positioning could also lead to large, unintended shifts in pressure, making precise control difficult even for experienced users.

They were very clear about what they wanted: a device that could stay on the neck comfortably throughout an entire session, be operated with one hand, and deliver consistent, controllable tightening. Pressure should increase only when the controller intentionally applied it, and release needed to be immediate and predictable. That list quickly became the design brief.

Breath Control Collar displayed showing overall design and structure

My first instinct was to start with Kinkista’s regular collar as the foundation. From there, the real challenge was designing a choking mechanism that felt deliberate and controlled, rather than improvised.

Close-up view of Breath Control Collar internal control mechanism

After several iterations, the couple responded most positively to a design built around an internal steel wire-rope system paired with dedicated control handles. This approach translates direct hand input into smooth, even tightening around the neck. Two control handles—one fixed and one sliding—allow the controller to adjust tension in real time using a single hand, while keeping the other hand free for other forms of BDSM stimulation.

Steel wire-rope detail inside Breath Control Collar

To avoid uncontrolled escalation, I added a sliding track that physically limits how much the wire-rope ring can tighten, ensuring the collar always operates within a defined range. Just as importantly, when pressure on the handles is released, the system immediately returns to its relaxed state, providing instant release without delay.

Detailed view of Breath Control Collar tension control structure

The final product is shown below.

If you like this design or have ideas for future iterations, feel free to reach out through the contact form or DM me on my social accounts.

* For consensual adult partner use only. Breath restriction carries serious risk, including loss of consciousness or death. The person applying this device must fully understand these risks, be experienced in the use of breath-control devices, and is responsible for continuous monitoring with the ability to release the device immediately. Discontinue use at the first sign of distress.

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